Build Your Own Trail Mix

Trail mix is my go-to afternoon snack. It’s the perfect blend of salty and sweet that keeps me going from lunch until dinner. Trail mix is also easy to pack and stores well. The next time you’re in the mood for trail mix, head to the bulk section of the grocery store and build your own! The perfect trail mix is all about getting a good blend of your favorite ingredients.

Nuts

Nuts are a great source of protein and fiber that help fill you up. They are also good for your heart with lots of healthy fat and omega-3 fatty acids. My favorites are almonds, walnuts, cashews, and pecans.

Tip: Look for unsalted and unsweetened nuts. Choose raw or roasted (your preference!). Nuts are high in calories so a one-ounce serving per day is all you need to get those health benefits. What’s a one-ounce serving? It’s 24 almonds, 18 cashews, 35 peanuts, 15 pecan halves or 14 walnut halves.

Seeds

Seeds can help boost your immune system because they have lots of zinc and selenium. They also contain calcium which helps to keep bones strong. I love pumpkin, sunflower, sesame and chia seeds.

Tip: Look for unsalted and unsweetened seeds. Like nuts, seeds are high in calories, so keep portions on the smaller side.

Dried Fruit

Dried fruit has many of the health benefits of fresh fruit. Many dried fruits pack antioxidant power (like dried Goji berries), promote heart health (like dried apples), and are rich in potassium (like prunes and dried apricots). The USDA recommends that everyone ages 2 and older eat at least one cup of fruit per day. Adding fruit to trail mix helps make that goal easier. My preferred dried fruits are raisins, dried cherries, and dried cranberries.

Tip: Look for dried fruit without added sugar. For portions, about 1/2 cup of dried fruit = 1 cup of fresh fruit.

Whole Grains

Whole grains add some crunch to your trail mix. They are a good source of fiber, iron and many B vitamins. Eating whole grains may help reduce blood cholesterol and lower the risk of heart disease, obesity and type 2 diabetes. Adding whole grains to trail mix also helps keep you feeling full long after eating. I like to add whole grain cereals, whole wheat crackers or air-popped popcorn to the mix.

Tip: Not sure if a product is a whole grain? Check the label for “100% whole grain” or “100% whole wheat”.

“Sugar and Spice”

A little “sugar and spice” goes a long way! Adding a few dark chocolate chips or unsweetened coconut flakes can take your mix from drab to fab. If you’re looking for a more savory and less sweet mix, try adding some spices, like cinnamon, turmeric, curry or cayenne pepper, to bump up the flavor.

My Go-To Trail Mix Blends

Fall Adventure Mix
Pecans
Walnuts
Pumpkin seeds
Wheat Chex cereal
Dried cranberries
Pumpkin pie spice
Dark chocolate chips

Sun Mix
Cashews
Almonds
Sunflower seeds
Golden raisins
Unsweetened Coconut flakes

Game Day Mix
Almonds
Peanuts
Pistachios
Raisins
Air popped popcorn
Pretzels
Dark chocolate chips

Overwhelmed with Life? Try Making Your Bed

My parents passed on many a piece of advice to my brother and me over the years. Like most children, we generally did the opposite.

Eat your broccoli, it’s good for you = Whittle a hole in table leg, hide broccoli there.
Empty the dishwasher, you’ll feel accomplished = Pay off a sibling to do it for you.
Being home by curfew will make you feel responsible = change the clocks an hour ahead.

You can see where this is going.

But there was one piece of advice that I initially embraced. Then, as life went on, I forgot it. Now, after recently becoming a parent, I’ve finally realized the true genius of this “life tip.” It was my mom’s edict to make my bed.

Forgetting everything my mom ever told me

A call to make one’s bed was, shall we say, a distinct challenge. You can’t throw a twin bed out of the window as a way to avoid the chore. Paying my brother to make the bed defied economic sense when calculated against income from allowance, my mix cd business and hoarded lunch money.

As such, I acquiesced on the topic, until I went to college and Forgot Everything My Mom Ever Told Me. As she visited my freshman dorm room, she took stock of the scene: a cereal spoon molded to the floor in a halo of dried milk, a stack of CDs wobbling on a stack of papers, and an inked reminder on the back of my hand to do something, possibly study for an exam.

She looked longingly at my roommate’s pristine side of the room – a made bed, a calendar, file folders and – gasp! – an iron. She sighed, as mothers often do, then fell back on a piece of wisdom she often uttered to her notoriously disorganized youngest child:

“If you can keep your room clean, you can keep your life clean.”

My mom had a point

Anytime something felt overwhelming, she would ask “Is your room clean?”  After a dozen years and hundreds of “no’s,” she modified the question.

My flavored toothpick business is getting too large and I can’t keep track of my clients on the school bus.
Did you make your bed?

I’m not ready to pick a major and don’t know where to start.
When was the last time you made your bed?

This Italian class is really hard.
Go make your bed, then sit on it, with your books.

Make your bed. It could lead to other good things

This wasn’t just a mom-tested mantra; she used it in her days as a social worker. Sometimes tasks in life seem so insurmountable, she would say, that it’s hard to know where to start. Even the phrase “start small” feels big. But a palatable suggestion, like “make your bed,” well that can have some power.

Here’s why.

In the widely-circulated commencement speech and subsequent book from Naval Adm. William McRaven, the emphasis on making a bed isn’t just aesthetic. It’s about paying attention to detail, starting small and harnessing a special kind of momentum in your day:

If you make your bed every morning, you will have accomplished the first task of the day. It will give you a small sense of pride, and it will encourage you to do another task, and another, and another. By the end of the day, that one task completed will have turned into many tasks completed. Making your bed will also reinforce the fact that little things in life matter. If you can’t do the little things right, you will never do the big things right.

And, if by chance you have a miserable day, you will come home to a bed that is made — that you made — and a made bed gives you encouragement that tomorrow will be better.

Others in the home/life organization field say it’s one of those habits that snowballs into other good things. Kind of like when you say “hi” to someone and they say it back, it’s a simple task that makes you feel good (if it doesn’t, YOU ARE SOUL-LESS.)

So the next time you feel overwhelmed or aren’t sure where to start with something, try going back to basics. Try making your bed.

And if you can’t remember, just write it on your hand.

Your Back-To-College Health Checklist

I’ve never been as sick as I was my first year at college. I was barely sleeping and living off ramen noodles and coffee. No wonder I caught mono!

Unfortunately, my mono went without diagnosis for eight months! The cure for mono is rest and more rest. But when I did suffer a cold or aches and pains, a simple gift of a first aid kit from my parents ”saved” me on more than one sickly occasion!

That’s why a first aid kit is on my back-to-school health care checklist.

You can create your own first aid kit by including some typical injury materials, including bandages, gauze and tape and antibiotic ointment for cuts and scrapes. You might need ibuprofen for aches and pains and antihistamines for allergic reactions. Eye drops help get the red out. Add a thermometer, just in case!

But a first aid kit is just one of the items you might want to tackle before the start of school:

#1 On Your Checklist Is . . .

Although it’s the last thing on our minds when we’re healthy, getting your yearly checkup should be at the top of your checklist.

Many college students should also get certain vaccinations, including those for meningitis, cervical cancer and whooping cough. Flu shots are also strongly recommended, but many college campuses offer free vaccinations for them in the fall.

Ask your doctor about the best ways to care for yourself, especially if you’re away from home. Also consider getting your annual dental checkup and needed vision and hearing screenings out of the way before school starts.

#2 Your Doctor’s Digits

While you’re at it, ask your doctor about the best way to reach him or her while you’re at school. Your pediatrician knows you best, and you trust him or her. Ask if they do visits over the phone or by video chat for those times when you can’t get to their office.

#3 Unlock These Health Benefits

Maybe not as exciting as meeting your new roommate or choosing your first classes, but you may save yourself a hassle later on by  registering now for an online account on your health insurer’s website. You may “unlock” a bunch of important benefits, including instant access to your member card and a new kind of service that lets you video chat with a doc ! (See below for details.)

Register now while you’re healthy. You don’t want to be searching for this stuff while you’re battling high temperatures, a scratchy throat and the shivers.

#4 Get “The Card”

You’ll need your health insurance member card, whether it’s a digital version on your phone or a physical card. You’ll need your card wherever you seek care.

#5 FaceTime A Doc

Adulting is hard! Mom and dad might not be there to take you to your doctor when you’re sick. If you can’t contact your doctor or your college’s health center is closed, telemedicine might be your best bet. It feels a lot like FaceTiming or Skyping. You can talk or video chat with a doctor from your dorm room, apartment or between classes for non-emergency medical conditions.

If you have Excellus BlueCross BlueShield health insurance, you may have access to a telemedicine benefit through MDLIVE. Using an app on your smartphone, computer or tablet, you can get help from a doctor within minutes. If needed, the doctor can fax in a prescription to a nearby pharmacy.

Consider registering today for telemedicine so you’re ready to use the app when you’re sick: ExcellusBCBS.com/HealthCareLive

That’s all I have for tips! I hope you’re better equipped to handle whatever malady comes your way this school year.

Ready to Run? Learn to Love Hills

Hills kinda have a bad rep among runners. Something about gravity and sweatiness and REALLY HARD WORK! It’s true. Hills are not easy to run. But I love them anyway, and you can learn to love them, too.

“Love” is a relative term. You learn to love hills the same way you learn to love kale. You know it’s good for you. You know if you try it now and then you’ll get the results you want.

My journey to “love” started with my second 5k. I was new to running. I randomly picked a race, and when people started warning me about the hills, I shrugged it off like any clueless novice. I’d run a few mildly hilly training routes. I could do three miles without walking. How hard could it be?

I had no idea what I was in for

Two miles of hills! I huffed and puffed and almost made it to the top of the last hill before I had to walk. Almost. I felt a little defeated, because my goal was to run the whole race without walking.

*Cue the Rocky theme*

After that, I made it a point to run hills every single week until the course became easier. Not easy, but easier. I recently ran the Boilermaker 15k, which has more than its fair share of hilly goodness. Every time I reached the top of a hill, I felt like I’d overcome a challenge.

You, too, can embrace those inclines.

tips for making it to the top, don’t pass them up

You’ll get stronger! When you run up a hill, you use your muscles differently. Your leg muscles and your booty will get a better workout. Strengthening those muscles up the hills will help you run better when you’re back on lower ground.

AND faster! I will never win a race. But I do strive to improve my personal times. Run hills every week for a few months then sign up for a flat 5k. See what happens!

Tired of running the same flat routes? Or the treadmill? Hills present an opportunity to end the monotony of the same old route, same old terrain. Changing things up can help your mental game both on and off the road.

It’s a challenge! Think about how you feel when you overcome any challenge. It’s exhilarating! Satisfying! Maybe even a little exhausting. But you did it. Congratulations!

You can be THAT person! You know the person I’m talking about. The one who says “Bring it on!” when everyone else is groaning about hills. You may even inspire the look. Is it respect? Awe? Fear? I haven’t figured that out. Give it a try and let me know.

Tips to make the most of hills

Slow down! It takes more work to run up a hill than it does to run on a flat surface. Unless you’re speed training and your goal is to sprint uphill until you can sprint no more, slow down a little to avoid burning out. Try to keep a consistent level of effort throughout your run: this means a slower uphill pace.

Don’t look up! If you’re afraid of heights you’ve heard “Don’t look down.” Apply the opposite concept if you tend to think about how much further you have to go.

Watch your posture! Especially if “Don’t look up!” helps you get to the top. If you find yourself slouching forward or hunching your shoulders, your movements become less efficient and you end up making more work for yourself. Think about standing up straight and gravity will help you get the slight lean that will drive you forward with better form.

Run with friends! If you’re like me, running with a group will motivate you up the hills when giving up sounds like the better deal. Think of the stories that will come out of the shared experience: Remember that time we ran ten miles, uphill, both ways, in a blizzard? A little exaggeration never hurt anyone.

There’s no shame in walking! If running up hills isn’t your thing, you don’t have to avoid routes or races because they’re a little (or a lot) hilly. There’s no rule that says you have to RUN every step of the way anytime you lace up your running shoes. Do what feels right for you.

Have any other tips? A favorite hilly race? Maybe a favorite training hill? Share in the comments section below!

O Canada! International Travel Right Next Door

For a fun family vacation or couple’s getaway, think Canada. You can say you’ve been abroad without traveling far. Four major cities—Montreal, Ottawa, Quebec City and Toronto—are within driving distance of four upstate New York cities—Binghamton, Rochester, Syracuse and Utica.

Toronto

If you’re a big league baseball fan, Toronto offers a different venue than New York City or Boston for Yankees or Red Sox games. When my son, Andy, was young, we took family trips to Toronto to see the Seattle Mariners, Ken Griffey Jr. in particular, play the Toronto Blue Jays.

My first trip to Toronto was with family from Oklahoma. We took in tourist attractions and did a lot of shopping. A year or two after Andy was born, my husband arranged for child care and surprised me with a trip to see “The Phantom of the Opera” at the beautiful Pantages Theatre (renamed the Ed Mirvish Theatre) in Toronto.

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Things to Do (Toronto)

Canada’s Wonderland: If you crave big thrills, shows and events, splash works and a kids’ area, then this amusement park north of Toronto is for you.

Casa Loma: This Gothic Revival style house, the former residence of a financier, is now a museum and landmark. Due to its unique architecture, it’s a popular filming location for movies and television and a venue for weddings.

CN Tower: The third tallest free-standing structure in the world and the tallest in the Western Hemisphere, the CN Tower was designated as one of the Seven Wonders of the Modern World. The revolving restaurant at the top gives a 360 degree view of the city.

Ontario Science Centre: Very kid friendly, with interactive exhibits that make learning fun for children and adults. Exhibits are devoted to the human body, space, the universe, the earth, nature, music, sports, the planets, technology and innovation.

Toronto Zoo: The largest in Canada, the Toronto Zoo is divided into seven geographical zones. It also has a Kids Zoo, Waterside Theatre and Splash Island.

 Ottawa

Mike and I took a “babymoon” or pre-baby vacation to Ottawa, Canada’s capital. Where else can you see the “changing of the guard” this side of the Atlantic? In their tall, black furry hats and impressive red uniforms, the guards perform drills every day (weather permitting) 10 a.m. on Parliament Hill early July through late August.

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Places to Visit (Ottawa)

Byward Market: In the heart of Ottawa, the Byward Market is a collection of eclectic shops, boutiques and restaurants. Most memorable from nearly 30 years ago? The street organ grinder with his little monkey and my husband buying me an original framed painting from a sidewalk artist.

Parliament Hill: The political and cultural heart of Ottawa, the Hill contains Gothic-style structures where politicians debate the present and future issues of the country. Free guided tours are available daily; Peace Tower offers an overall view of the city. The Hill hosts a number of celebrations, including Canada Day (July 1) with entertainment and a fireworks show; the Sound and Light show on summer nights; and Christmas Lights Across Canada during the winter holidays.

Rideau Canal: Making its way through Ottawa’s downtown, the canal is active with walkers, runners, in-line skaters and cyclists. This waterway connecting Kingston, Ontario, to Ottawa is used regularly by boaters and paddlers alike. When the canal freezes over, it becomes the world’s largest skating rink.

Montreal & Quebec City

This year, my son and I made Mother’s Day a long weekend, breaking up the drive from Syracuse to Canada by going first to Montreal and exploring that cosmopolitan city for a couple of days. Then, we headed north to Quebec City, the closest thing to Europe in the Western Hemisphere. After a short visit, we returned to Montreal for another night’s stay. The next day, I drove home and Andy flew back to Baltimore. Over six days, including travel time, we packed in a lot of sightseeing.

Everywhere we went, Andy and I encountered friendly, helpful people. It was refreshing to enjoy a different culture so close to home. Expect to be greeted with a “bon jour” in Quebec City and Montreal. Yet, French-speaking Canadians quickly switch to English when requested. Plus, you can download the Google Translate app to your smartphone if faced with a menu or directions in French. (Note: You can switch most websites from French to English.)

Using YELP and Trip Advisor apps, we plotted our “must see places” (many free!) and local eateries.

Did I rave about the food yet? It’s extraordinary! We used our apps to find highly rated, but not out of our price range restaurants. We were never disappointed. Most restaurants had an “authentic” feel with rustic furnishings and décor that added to their ambiance.

We burned off the extra calories by walking almost everywhere. Google Maps made directions easy, although Montreal (and Toronto) have good subway and other transport systems. And, we felt safe.

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 Things to Do (Montreal)

Biodome de Montreal: Home to the 1976 Olympics, the site has several exhibits. Andy and I visited the indoor wildlife park. Several ecosystems exist side by side, from tropical forests to temperate woodlands and rivers (including raccoons and otters) to the polar world where we viewed our favorite bird, the puffin.

Mount Royal: We walked through downtown Montreal and McGill University to reach this iconic landmark. Wooden steps intersperse the trail to make the climb easier. From the top, the view of the city is spectacular.

Notre-Dame Basilica: Our goal was to stay in or near the historic district of old Montreal to explore on foot. A must see is this gorgeous cathedral with wonderful wood carvings, stained glass windows and lots of sculptures. Quiet refuge in a bustling city.

Old Port Montreal: A scenic place to walk along the St. Lawrence River, with attractions such as Cirque de Soleil, Montreal Science Centre and a spa barge.

Where to Eat (Montreal)

We happened upon Le Robin Square, where Andy had pork belly. The wait staff was attentive, and the owner sat and chatted with us after the restaurant closed.

Andy’s top choice was Liverpool House, sister restaurant to Joe Beef that Anthony Bourdain featured on his TV show, No Reservations. I had the house special of lobster spaghetti; good, but a lot to eat of a very rich dish.

Quebec City

Places to Stay (Quebec City)

Fairmont Le Chateau Frontenac is supposedly the most photographed hotel in the world. It looks like a European castle straight out of a fairy tale. Andy compared the city’s row upon row of little shops to Skaneateles, a popular summer resort town west of Syracuse, but “on steroids.”

We stayed at quaint, but comfortable boutique lodgings, the Hotel du Vieux-Quebec, in the heart of Old Quebec. A basket of traditional French breakfast food—croissants and jam, cheese and fruit­—appeared at our door each morning.

Things to Do (Quebec City)

Quebec City is located on the banks of the St. Lawrence River and was an important part of Canada’s early history. Statues of famous figures from the past are scattered throughout the city. This July, as part of Canada’s 150th anniversary celebration of its confederation and Rendez-vous Naval 2017, 40 tall ships will stop at ports in Ontario, Quebec and the Canadian Maritime.

Montmorency Falls Park: Would you believe this natural wonder is higher than Niagara Falls? Staircases offer several views, with plenty of opportunities to get up close and wet!

Ghost Tours of Quebec: We heard about it too late to attend, but Trip Advisor gives it high marks.

Musee de la Civilisation: A rainy day forced us inside, but we’re glad it did. This museum offers not only a historic perspective of the native Aborigines and early French and English settlers, but also fun activities for families.

Places to Eat (Quebec City)

We followed a friend’s recommendation of Hobbitt Bistro for a relaxing, light lunch Parisian style seated at a small sidewalk table. Andy had the salmon tartare, I, the roasted root vegetables.

Near the Musee, we ate at Café St Malo, where Andy and I both had a delicious broth-based fish soup.

A must eat restaurant for Andy was L’Affaire Est Ketchup, another Bourdain pick. In addition to its friendly wait staff and good wine selection, this restaurant holds a claim to fame for using an electric coil range and oven to cook its tasty entrees.

One Big Birthday Bash

This year, Canada is celebrating its 150th anniversary of confederation. Although our neighbor to the north was settled centuries ago, July 1, 1867, the British North American colonies of New Brunswick, Nova Scotia and Province of Canada (Quebec and Ontario) united under the single banner of a new nation.

Throughout 2017, Parks Canada is offering free admission to its national parks, historic sites and marine conservation areas. All year, celebrations will take place throughout Canada’s cities and cultural centers.

Your Money Goes Farther

Since about 2014, the Canadian exchange rate is 70 cents to 80 cents of the U.S. dollar. You can check the exchange rate here: http://www.bankofcanada.ca/

Cash: It’s easier if you use a credit card (see below), but you may want to have a small amount on cash on hand. Foreign exchange places will charge a fee to convert your American dollars for Canadian cash and back. You can find them in tourist areas, airports, border crossings and large malls. With banks, you usually have to be a member to make an exchange. ATMs may charge a user fee.

Credit cards: Before you travel, check with your credit card company to see if it charges exchange fees. My son and I each got a new credit card that charged no exchange fees, plus gives us excellent reward points.

Smartphones: Before crossing the border, check with your mobile phone provider for coverage in Canada.

At the Border

Good news! A New York Enhanced Driver License (EDL) will allow you to enter Canada and return to the U.S. Although I could not find the exact wording on the Canada Borders Services Agency, a call to the government agency assured me you could. If you’re taking a child or children, take their birth certificate(s). A passport card works if you’re driving across the border or traveling by boat, but if you fly, you must have a passport book. An EDL takes about two weeks to obtain; a passport, six to eight weeks.

Here’s information on obtaining a US passport.

Mapquest Miles

Miles From Upstate New York Cities to Canadian Cities

FROM/TO Montreal Ottawa Quebec City Toronto
Binghamton 325 267 483 297
Rochester 332 274 494 169
Syracuse 252 194 414 246
Utica 251 193 396 293

 

Indoor Fun: Beat the Heat (Or Those Rainy Summer Days)

I can’t stand the heat. I’ll take brushing snow off my car over 90+ degree weather any day.

I disliked the heat even more as a child, partially because I had some health issues that were affected by the heat. For families with heat-related health issues, or who simply can’t stand the high temps or rainy summer days, it can be difficult to find things to do during a season that’s designed for outdoor activity.

Can’t stand the heat? Get out of the kitchen … and find something fun to do! Check out these indoor activities during the dog days of summer!

Movie Days

Movie theaters are notoriously cold. Forget your sweatshirt, and you may find yourself shivering in the middle of July. Take the whole family out for less than $10 this summer by taking advantage of $1 movie days. Various movie theaters show family films throughout the summer, allowing your family to have fun at the movies without breaking the bank. Regal Cinemas is one of many theaters offering $1 movie days this year.

Museums

Looking for something more interactive and, dare I say, more educational for you and the kiddos? Museums throughout Upstate NY are hosting family-themed events all summer, and are a great alternative to getting your sunburn on.

Expand your kids’ minds at a variety of museums, including The Strong museum, Rochester Museum & Science Center, Milton J. Rubenstein Museum of Science & Technology (MOST) and the Utica Children’s Museum during hot, or even rainy days. Don’t stop there, either. Upstate NY is full of great museums fit for the family. You may enjoy this post by our blogger, who took her kids to the Corning Museum of Glass.

Indoor Sport Facilities

Sports complexes seem to be more common than ever. Some sport facilities offer indoor sport leagues for kids, and may offer free-time for pick-up games. Stay active, yet stay somewhat cool by staying out of the sun. Indoor spots, such as Sky Zone Trampoline Park and Glow Golf, are other great alternatives that keep the family active while indoors.

Bowling Alleys

Since we’re talking about keeping families active, why not bowl? Some lanes offer “kids bowl free” opportunities and bumper bowling (no more gutterballs!).

Antique Malls

They aren’t for everyone, but they can make for great scenery and an excuse to take a leisurely walk. They’re also full of things that your kids have probably never seen before!

Telephones that hung on walls? You mean the whole family shared one phone? Movies you had to rewind? What does that mean?

It can be fun to explain to kids about these ancient relics. You may even find things that need to be explained to YOU as well!

Retail Malls

No, you don’t have to drag the little ones on a shopping spree. But a lot of malls offer family fun throughout the summer, including outings at Dave & Busters, bounce houses, carousel rides or go-kart racing. Check with your favorite local mall for details.

Conservatories

Much like museums, conservatories can be a very relaxing yet educational way to spend the day indoors. Take a tropical escape with your kids, and you may even make a new animal friend!  Read about our blogger’s experience visiting the Lamberton Conservatory in Rochester.

Libraries

Last but not least, your local library may serve as a treasure trove of summer (indoor) fun! You may be surprised by some of the events offered by the libraries, including small acoustic concerts, STEM activities, improv theatre, book signings and more.  Don’t forget the books! Why not sign your kid up for your local library’s summer reading program? You’ll have an excuse to stop at the library whenever possible!

Indoor activities may not be what you think of when “summer” comes to mind. But they can be a nice break from the heat, or rainy summer weather, and can be a life saver to those who have medical conditions that are affected by the heat.

Did we miss a favorite indoor summer activity of yours? Let us know in the comments section below!

Ready to Run? The Hardest Part is Starting

The hardest part about running is starting. The best part is when it’s over. If you’d asked me about a year ago how to start running, I would’ve said don’t. That’s because I never gave it a shot. Since joining a running program, buying my first pair of real running shoes, and running a handful of 5K’s, my perspective has changed.

Don’t get me wrong—running is hard. It’s not just a thing you start doing one day and you’re magically good at it (at least it wasn’t for me). It took a lot of dedication, fighting self-doubt, and getting out there four times a week even when I didn’t want to.

My first month of running went something like this:

Week One

This sucks. I can hardly breathe and my legs are going numb.

Week Two

Why am I doing this? I’m not cut out for running. I am so sore.

Week Three

I’m not dying anymore, and I can kind of talk to others in the group when I run.

Week Four

I’m doing it! I’m really running and it’s not as horrible as I thought it was!

Soon enough, I was shaving minutes off my pace and I actually looked forward to going for a run. If you’re thinking what I used to think (that running is horrible and you should never do it) here are a few things that might motivate you to get out there and give it a try:

Join a running program

I signed up for the No Boundaries 2.0 training offered by Fleet Feet Sports I did it for the personal accountability (the program was just enough money that I didn’t quit when I felt like giving up), pressure to keep running when I wanted to take a break, and the social aspects, too.

Other running programs include those by the Utica Roadrunners, Triple Cities Runners Club in the Binghamton area, Fleet Feet Syracuse and the YMCA of Greater Syracuse.

Make the investment in good running shoes

Yes, the good ones are ugly, but it made a huge difference in reducing my soreness and eliminating my shin splints. I went to Fleet Feet for help selecting my sneakers, but if you’re a DIY kind of person, Matt Rogers, an exercise physiologist, gives some pointers for picking out the right type of shoes.

The key, he said, is to determine whether you need sneakers with motion control, stability or cushioned support. I love Matt’s suggestion for doing a “wet test” to determine which type of foot you have. You basically wet your feet, step on some paper or another surface and see which type of “blob” appears:

  • Is there a little arch? You likely have flat feet and might need a sneaker with motion control.
  • Is there tons of space between what looks like two “islands?” Consider sneakers with extra cushioning.
  • A normal arch will look like, well, a typical footprint. You might need a sneaker with stability control.

Download an app to track your runs

Try using Map My Run. I like seeing where I’ve run, my pace, and doing challenges with friends. You could also download a “couch to 5k” app instead of joining a running program, but you won’t get that same level of accountability.

Listen to music that pumps you up

It’s amazing how one song can get you in the groove or give you an added boost. Compile a playlist of your favorite jams before you hit the streets—that way you’re not skipping through your entire music library trying to find those energizing songs.

Volunteer to hand out medals at a marathon

You will appreciate running after seeing all of the different people crossing the finish line. If they don’t inspire you to give it a try, I don’t know what will.

I still wouldn’t classify myself as a “runner.” I don’t think I ever will. But it’s really cool to stick with an activity, even when you don’t want to, and overcome the mental challenges you’ve set for yourself. Give it a chance.

What advice do you have for new runners? Are there any tricks, or other local running programs, that worked for you? Share your thoughts in the comments section below!

Hidden Gem: Corning Museum of Glass

THE WORLD OF GLASS

When I mentioned to others I was headed to The Corning Museum of Glass, I heard a lot of, “Oh yeah, I was there in elementary school, but have not been back since.” On a recent trip to the museum, I learned that it was well worth a return visit.

DON’T MISS

We loved the interactive demonstrations. There is something satisfying about observing the creation of glass artwork, and then watching it be smashed to smithereens!

You’d be surprised by the intricate torch work needed to bring a small glass bear to life. The longer shows allowed us to see a piece being made from start to finish, and to see all the intricate handiwork that goes into this craft. Questions were encouraged, and my children always have a lot of questions.

TRY IT YOURSELF

Shevah’s daughter crafting a glass piece.

We signed my kids up for a glass blowing class. You don’t usually get a chance to try something you just learned about! The teacher was patient and kind, and engaged them in the process. And now they have something at home to remind them of the trip.

Quick tip: If you have more than one day in Corning, make your own glass on day one. Your piece will need to slowly cool overnight (this is called annealing). Or they can ship your creation home for an extra fee.

Shevah’s son blowing glass

MY BIG SURPRISE

“It’s Raining Knives” Photo courtesy of Corning Museum of Glass.

My kids usually have little patience for traditional art galleries. But I was pleasantly surprised by how engaged they were at this museum.

The piece that sparked the most interest was “It’s Raining Knives.” Even without reading the sign, the symbolism came through.

WHAT TO SEE

We ended the visit with the Tiffany’s Glass Mosaics exhibit that just opened. The museum boasts that it has “the world’s best collection of art and historical glass” and they do not exaggerate. The exhibits were top-notch.

There are also galleries that resemble a science museum, explaining the history of glass that dates back centuries and its applications to modern day life. It is called the innovation center for a reason, illustrating how glass has changed our lives with inventions that have helped us for centuries (cookware and windows) and new ones that have changed our way of life (electronic screens, telescopes, and fiberglass).

THE GREATEST CATASTROPHE

The museum itself could be considered a work of art and has quite the history. Large, light-filled spaces swoop around the different levels. Since it opened in 1951, galleries have expanded multiple times so that it now has 50,000 objects on display. It is a resilient space as well, having weathered a devastating flood in 1972 that was called “possibly the greatest single catastrophe borne by an American museum” to become one of New York’s cultural showpieces.

BEYOND THE MUSEUM

We had the great opportunity to visit over Memorial Day Weekend and experience GlassFest. It takes place in Corning’s Gaffer district (A gaffer is another name for glassblower). There were outside glass making demonstrations, concerts, kids activities, and a street craft fair with some unique items. I liked it all; my kids especially liked the snow cones.

We even got an added bonus a week later in our hometown! The museum has a floating barge that will be offering glass blowing demonstrations in several towns this summer. Look for it in Seneca Falls (July 7-9) and Syracuse (Sept. 24-28)!

THE DETAILS

Website:
http://www.cmog.org

Hours of Operation:
9 am – 8 pm, May 26 – September 4, 2017
9 am – 5 pm, September 5, 2017 – May 24, 2018

Admission: Adults are $19.50, Kids 17 and under are Free
(Admission is good for 2 consecutive days)
Additional Charges for Make Your Own Glass

22 Ice Cream Shops to Check Out This Summer

When I was a kid, my favorite ice cream shop was always the one closest to my house. It was next to the park and my friends and I were able to ride our bikes or walk there so we didn’t have to ask our parents to drive us.

No one ever bothered to learn the actual name of the place because everyone knew it as, “the spot next to the park.” You couldn’t miss it. Almost every night there would be families and soccer teams crowded around one of the few tables or sitting in the grass.

The ice cream spot in my town is one of those places that makes it feel like it’s actually summer when it opens for the season.

Some of my co-workers’ favorite ice cream places range from franchises to one-of-a-kind mom and pop shops. Here are the creameries and some of their flavors or specialties!

And no matter what anyone says – a trip to the ice cream shop can be part of an adequate diet. Moderation is key. You can always ask for a kiddie cone, opt for low-fat frozen yogurt or consider walking or riding your bike to the ice cream place.

CENTRAL NEW YORK REGION

Camillus

  • Peter’s Polar Parlor: Blueberry, red raspberry sherbet, watermelon sherbet, pistachio soft serve, very berry twist

Manlius

  • Sno Top: Trash can sundae, lemon dole whip, gourmet sundaes, gourmet slurries

North Syracuse

  • Big Dip: Homemade ice cream, twin berry twist, peanut butter chocolate twist, sunset twist (orange and lemon dole whip), shark attack sundae, homemade whipped cream
  • The Ice Cream Stand: Variety of organic/vegan/non-GMO ice cream flavors, toasted marshmallow toppers

Oswego

Syracuse

 

FINGER LAKES REGION

Avon

  • Tom Wahl’s: Twin kissed soft serve, root beer float, orange float, homemade root beer

Bloomfield

Gates

Spencerport

Victor

  • Papa Jack’s Ice Cream: Cookie monster and chocoholic sundaes; frozen custard, frozen yogurt, ice cream pies/cakes and milkshakes

Webster

  • Bruster’s: All ice cream made on site. Chocolate raspberry truffle, white turtle, free doggie sundaes. On Thursdays, bring your own banana and get half off a banana split

Pittsford

 

UTICA REGION

Boonville

  • Mercer’s Dairy: Five percent alcohol by volume wine ice cream, 10 soft serve flavors, and 30 hard serve flavors. All ice cream made on site

Hamilton

Utica

  • Nicky Doodles: 50 flavors of soft serve ice cream, 30 flavors of hard ice cream, 28 specialty sundaes

Remsen

  • Ward’s Drive-In: Sorbet, black raspberry frozen yogurt, campfire s’mores ice cream

 

SOUTHERN TIER

Elmira

  • Big Top Ice Cream: Superbowl sundae, turtle sundae, strawberry shortcake with homemade biscuits

Vestal

Binghamton

  • Jones Humdinger: Blueberry cheesecake, oreo joe, cookie dough, peppermint patty

Did we miss your favorite creamery? Add it to the comments section below!

Hidden Gems: Cornell Botanic Gardens

The rhododendrons and azaleas were in full bloom, from magenta to pale pinks and creamy whites, when my work colleague, Linnea, and I visited the Cornell Botanic Gardens in June. This little gem of a park is not so little. It covers acres of land that are part of the Cornell University campus and College of Agriculture and Life Sciences.

Gardener’s Delight

If you like nature, flowers and trees, then this is the place for you. Linnea and I spent a couple of hours enjoying the beauty of the landscape, pausing to enjoy flowers close up and sniffing their delicate fragrances. We snapped a lot of photos, especially of plants we favored for our own gardens. Each plant is tagged with its common and scientific names for easy identification.

Not only did the garden’s beauty delight us, but also its statues, buildings, including a pagoda, and meandering trails.

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Would you believe there are 17 themed beds? They include ornamental and practical herbs, heritage vegetables, perennials, ornamental grasses, groundcovers, conifers, containers, and plants of winter interest.

Herbs to Dye For

In particular, I wanted to visit the herb garden. I was not disappointed. Plants are grouped as:

  • Ancient herbs
  • Bee herbs
  • Dye herbs
  • Edible flowers
  • Herbs in literature
  • Herbs of Native Americans
  • Medicinal herbs
  • Ornamental herbs
  • Sacred herbs
  • Salad and potherbs
  • Savory seed herbs
  • Tea herbs

Tussie mussies and nosegays, gatherings of fragrant herbs and flowers. invoked images of Victorian ladies.

The site also includes a 100-acre arboretum. More than 100 different species of birds have been sighted there. If you’re into hiking, there are several trails.

I discovered the gardens when I was writing a story about herb gardening for this blog. My Google search for Cornell Cooperative Extension, a free, excellent resource for farmers to weekend gardeners, brought me to this place. I had no idea it existed, even after living in upstate New York for more than 40 years and visiting the Ithaca area several times.

The Details

Location: 124 Comstock Knoll Drive, Ithaca, NY, 14850
Approximate driving times: Binghamton, 75 minutes; Rochester, two hours; Syracuse, about 80 minutes; Utica, a little more than two hours.
Hours: Open dawn to dusk year round.
Accessible: Yes, a few stairs on some paths.
Dog friendly: Yes, on a leash.
Admission and parking: Free.
For more info: cornellbotanicgardens.org/our-gardens/botanical or 607-255-2400

More to Explore in Ithaca

Although there’s plenty to explore on the Cornell campus, Ithaca has much to offer, including the Cayuga Nature Center, Museum of the Earth and the Sciencenter and its Sagan Walk, a ¾ mile 1:5 billion scale model of the solar system that’s also a memorial to Ithaca resident and astronomer Carl Sagan. Ithaca Commons is a mix of restaurants, shops and events. Linnea and I were lucky enough to visit the gardens at the same time of Ithaca’s Annual Festival.

Check them all out on the discovery trail.